Magick for Self-Love
Around this time of year, there is much speak of ‘Valentines’, and for those of us who are single, we’ve had the introduction of ‘Galentines’, where women show each other love, and I love that! But this year I’d love to see more people focusing on love of self, I wonder if anyone can come up with a suitable catchy word for that!
With this in mind I’ve decided to share three self-love spells from my Magickal Library Book Series.
From The Witch-ionary
Self - Love Charm Bag
You will need:
Jasmine flowers
Marjoram
Poppy seeds
A drawstring pouch (preferably pink or white)
A rose quartz crystal
Blend the herbs together clockwise to attract self-love, as you do so consider all the beautiful qualities you possess. Imagine you are your own best friend, and be kind with your thoughts. Imbue the herbs with your gentle loving energy.
State the following:
“Self-love and appreciation shall come to me
As I will it, so mote it be”
Sit with the rose quartz in your hand and feel its loving vibration filling you up.
Know that love is engulfing you, surrounding you.
Visualise a soft pink light rising up through you, out of you, and surrounding you in its loving embrace.
Feel the emotion of love – this love is pure, and it’s for you!
Add the herb blend and rose quartz to the pouch and tie it firmly closed.
Keep this bag close by, and draw from its loving energy when needed.
From The Spell Dispensary
Self-Love Bath Pouch
Jasmine flowers and rose petals are both renowned for their soothing, loving properties. Their vibrations attract love of all kinds – friendship, romance, self-love etc.
Rose Quartz has a loving, healing vibration and is the perfect addition to any love spell/ritual!
Here’s how to utilise them for a beautiful bath ritual.
You will need:
Jasmine Flowers
Dried Rose Petals
Rose Quartz Crystal
Draw String Pouch
Sit quietly, and lovingly add the jasmine flowers, rose petals, and rose quartz to the bath pouch; do so with gratitude for the loving, soothing energy this little magickal pouch will bring you! Tie the pouch closed.
Prepare yourself a bath – you can use candles and music to create a magickal, relaxing atmosphere, and add the pouch to the water, swirling clockwise to attract loving vibrations.
As you bathe meditate on all the positive things about you – don’t allow any negative self-talk; just positive affirmations - and feel the love you have for yourself blossom. Know that this love you are feeling for yourself will attract more and more love into your life – and relax as you envelop yourself in the magickal, loving, healing waters.
*If you don’t have bath, the pouch can be hung over your shower-head, or added to a foot soak
From The Herb Dispensary
Love Thyself Candle Spell
A gentle and beautiful spell to encourage self-love.
You will need:
Half an Apple
Pink Spell Candle
Poppy Seeds
Rose Petals
Slice the base off the apple so it will sit without wobbling.
Scoop out a tiny bit of the centre so you can use this half an apple as a candle holder.
Place the spell candle in the centre.
Scatter poppy seeds and rose petals round the base of the candle, working clockwise as you state the following:
“I commit to seeing the best in myself, the way I see it in others.
I am a beautiful part of this magickal Universe, and worthy of love and acceptance”
Light the candle.
As the candle burns, think only beautiful, gentle, loving thoughts about yourself. Feel yourself surrounded by all the loving energies of the Universe, and make a commitment to feel this love of self as you move forward with your life.
I hope these loving spells will encourage you to see yourself for the beautiful, magickal, amazing soul that you are, and will help you to realise that you too are worthy of the love you so readily give to others.




this was quite lovely, thank you for sharing!
Thank you, Deb. Not sure if it’s just the weather, my age or the fact that I’ve not been past my front door in 12 days but the melancholy was closing in and felt as heavy as the ice that coats everything within sight until your letter arrived. Your letters are like sunshine, a fresh breeze, a hug, a perfect cup of tea or the smile of a loved-one. Your words are timely and your wisdom is timeless. Your letter lifted my spirits and renewed my faith that the sun will shine again spring really is just around the corner. I’m so grateful I stumbled upon your blog. You are a blessing.-Cheryl